Category Archives: Thoughts

Hello Again!

It has been almost two months since my last post. The workload in the office for the last few weeks was overwhelming. I had been working for 10-12 hours everyday and occasionally on weekends.

I felt like my day-to-day life had been whacked badly by lightening and powerful storms, and the heavy rain was drowning me.

Today it seems the storm has left. Finally, I can breathe! The workflow ebbs down and now I can already sense calmness in the office.

Looking the positive side of the situation, it brought me extra cash because of the overtime pay (big smile!).

Before the hectic weeks, I was approached by two individuals, who were interested to contribute blog posts in Frugal Expat, and they had been kind enough to send the articles.

My apologies for the extreme delay. Watch out as I will be posting it soon!

That’s all for now and see you around!

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A Beautiful Rainy Monday in Abu Dhabi…

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Today morning I was caught in surprise as I stepped out from our building. I could not believe what I saw – the buildings and streets were soaked in heavy rain.

What a beautiful chilly rainy Monday!

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As I walked my way to the office, I started to feel nostalgic. I missed those days when heavy rains lashed our streets back home. The “after rain” moment is always a breathtaking experience for me. It is a pleasure to look at the garden, the trees, the flowers and the streets that are all soaked in rainwater.

Their color looks more intense. It seems that a new life is breathed into them. The garden is greener and the flowers are livelier. The rain seems to dust them off and their natural beauty just comes out.

Well, I am imagining that setting back home where the surroundings are greener than here.

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It rarely rains here. I am talking about a real one, not drizzles only. So when it rains, I personally savor the “after rain” moments.

I discovered a new TV series “Blue Blood”. It is not actually new because the season 2 just finished last month. Anyway, that’s what I did this weekend – “Blue Blood” TV series marathon. But still, I love NCIS.. LOL!

Anyway, I am aiming to declutter our room by slowly sorting out things – box by box, drawer by drawer – but it is still a long process considering the amount of personal effects that we had hoarded for the last few years. I was actually browsing the internet this morning about minimalist lifestyle and this blog post “Don’t Just Declutter, De-Own” written by Joshua Becker hit me.

Honestly, we are really intensively plagued with the mentality of consumerism and I am one of the living examples of it. I am serious about getting rid of much unnecessary stuff in our room. There are the unused clothing, books, gym equipments, etc.

My goal this year – declutter and de-own.

Embracing Minimalistic Lifestyle

Three weeks ago we finally shifted to our new accommodation.  

When we finished packing our things last month, I was stunned with the amount of things that we accumulated despite of getting rid many items prior to sorting and packing our belongings. We gave away many kitchen items, cupboards, clothes, and furniture. I threw old magazines, files of papers, and packed my over 300 books.

Still we ended up with a lot of stuff. The 2.5 ton cargo pick-up that we rented to help us shift our things made two trips as one was not enough.

Personally I really do not recommend accumulating things while working and living in UAE. We all know that our stay here is only temporary and eventually we have to go back home for good or migrate in other country.

I am considering that it is really time to be ruthless in downsizing and to start a minimalistic lifestyle. No more unnecessary things. I should only buy things if it is necessary.

It is time to go digital too. Hubby and I love books but it is space-consuming. As painful it is to let go paperbacks and hard cover books, I simply have to.

Getting rid of subscriptions. As I used to own a flat, I subscribed to internet, landline phone, cable and other utilities. On top of that, I am keeping (until my last working day) a postpaid mobile phone for my work.

As I gave up my flat, this allowed me to get rid of it except for my postpaid phone but it will soon, three more weeks to go.

Long term financial commitments. Again, our life here in UAE is unpredictable. Today you may have your secure and high paying job but it can be gone tomorrow. This is the reason that I personally do not recommend long term financial commitments like personal loans.

Many expats face this problem after they lose their jobs. They could not afford to pay the monthly dues anymore.

Until today I still have few boxes to unpack and to sort out.

Side Business

I have really been very busy for the last few weeks doing all the errands. Also, I become very determined of pursuing my side business thus I go home late every night.

Sometimes when I am tired, discouragement starts to creep in. Then I have to remind myself again, the reason I am doing this side business. I want to increase my cash flow and eventually establish my own business. I see this as my passport to final exit from the corporate world and in return will allow me to have flexible time to be with my son.

This is the motivation that propels me to work extra hours every week hoping that my hard work and sacrifices will eventually pay off.  

I always remind myself that whatever I want to achieve in life, I need to work for it. Nothing comes free. You reap what you sow.

 

Evolution of (My) Journals

I used to keep journals until my cousin found and read few pages of it. After that incident, I stopped keeping my journals because of fear that someone will discover and read it. For me, journals are haven of my deepest thoughts and emotions thus it is important that I keep it secure as it reveals everything.

Nowadays I still write my journals but online. Although sometimes I find it inconvenient especially when I am away from my computer or laptop, thus I have my occasional loose papers here and there.

Most of my journals now are in a form of prayer. I write first thing in the morning with a cup of hot coffee and an instrumental music. Of course, I have those days too that I wake up late and end up not writing my journal.

I have been keeping my journal in GoogleDoc but yesterday I found a new online journal tool called Penzu. I already wrote my first entry and I enjoyed using it. You can register and use it for free. If you wish to have more features, then you can pay for upgrade, the “pro” version.

I had tried few online journals before. Some needs to be downloaded in your computer which has a disadvantage because it limits your access. You cannot journal unless the software is installed. I like the web based online journals because its accessibility is easier as long as there is internet connection.

What about you? Do you keep a journal?

Your Delay is not my Emergency

There is a part of my job that involves contracting.  The peak of this task is during the end of the year until mid January. The contracting process involves a lot preparation and once finalize it is sent to our clients.  I am quite used to this contacting season considering that I have been working for four years in our office but this year, it seems to be the worst one.

For whatever reasons, there is a delay from every aspect. Unfortunately, the consequence of this delay boils down to one person, our secretary. She will work until midnight or worst early morning to finish everything.

This reminds me of my ex-colleague. She was working as a secretary and she posted a bold text in here PC which was really visible even if you are at a distance. The words were “Your delay it not my emergency”. If you have bosses who tend to delay things and later dump these responsibilities to you with unreasonable deadline, then this adage suits him.

Watch Out! Fines in Abu Dhabi

I was cleaning my car today and I saw a flyer “Keep Abu Dhabi City Clean”. I could not remember from where I got the flyer but it is worth to read.

  • Fine for Dropping Cigarette Butts  AED 200
  • Fine for Spitting AED 100
  • Fine for Littering on the Street AED 500
  • Fine for Spitting Gum AED 500

Working on Google Docs

I gave up working on my laptop last month. I copied all my files in my external drive and now opted to work on a desktop. I want to have a bit of flexibility in terms of accessibility in my files.

So I decided now to use the Google Documents. I am keeping my journals and blog posts online. It is easier to access regardless if I am at home or somewhere else. I fear the safety of my external drive if I continuously use it. At home, it is fine because I know our computers but outside I am fearful that it will be infected with virus. Then all of my files will be gone.

The safest way so far is the Google Docs.

My sister recommended DropBox as well. I really have not explored the details of this option but I am using it for sharing of files only with my sister.

What about you? Where do you keep your files?

A Confirmed Morning Person

I woke up today at past two in the morning and I could not sleep anymore. So I decided to get up and check my office emails. After that, I started writing some blog posts. I kept a list of topics but sometimes I do not have the time to write it really.Now, I feel very productive. Thoughts are just flowing seamlessly. I wish to have this creative rhythm always  but sometimes getting up early in the morning can be very challenging.

Anyway, it is already almost five in the morning and I would like to take a nap for an hour at least before I will hit the office.

Wish me luck! Hopefully I will not be sleepy today..