Cultural Difference
I was having a casual chat with my colleague and we were talking about personal relationships. Then suddenly she whispered and asked, “How did you know that he was the right man to marry?”.
I was stunned to hear such question from a 24 years old married woman. Then I looked at her face but I could not find any hint of a joke. Later I realized that she was really serious in asking me that question.
Of course, I gave my usual answer. You will know it in your heart if he is the right man for you.
This is the beauty of working in a multicultural office because you will learn to great extent the beauty and uniqueness of each culture. What seems to be normal in my culture can be sometimes deemed as taboo in other culture.
My colleague has an arranged marriage and never had any boyfriends or never dated other men in her life. Thus, she popped out that question.






