Frugal Expat

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Finally!

Finally my three months notice period culminated last Thursday, 3rd May 2012 and I felt relieve. Gladly they didn’t organize any farewell lunch as it was my personal request but they gave me a present as farewell gift.

On the other hand, my dear colleague and friend Tarek had taken an effort to drive all the way from Al Ain to simply have a dinner with our few chosen colleagues and friends. I really appreciated his effort because the distance between Al Ain  and  Dhabi is approximately 140 kms.

We dined in Castello Restaurant and Café, a nice Arabic restaurant and I liked really the location. And of course, we concluded our dinner with a shisha..

Thanks Buddy!

Overhaul

My life is going through an overhaul right now and in a way I am proud of it (I’ll tell you the reason later!). Actually the process is just initiating and the result is still to be seen and felt.

Work
I am one of those who keep their jobs for years for the sake of paycheck. Instead I endure the misery of working in the corporate world as I trade off my happiness, time, passion and health. Few more days from now, I will eventually get rid of the job that I detest for four years and five months.

Not only that, I will be office base worker soon. I am expecting a period of boredom on my first few months because for the last two year, I am always on the go – driving on the road, visiting clients in their respective offices, having lunch or dinner with guests or chatting on the phone to sort out issues or to extend assistance.

Soon, I will have a very minimal contact with clients, less time on the road and in my car, no work related phone calls which are disturbing on weekends and no more late night work oriented social functions.

Clothing
I am not yet sure though but I will probably be wearing smart casual clothes in my office because that’s what there staffs were wearing during my interview and it was a weekday. No more high powered business suits and high heels.

New Home Sweet Home
Hubby and I moved to a new flat. We just finished shifting last night, not an easy one but glad it was over. We realized yesterday that we really had a lot of personal effects which need to be trimmed down (and we should be ruthless in doing that!). Actually, we already downsized but I think it was not enough.

I believe that we should only stay in job that makes us happy. Why? Personally in my current job I come to office at around 7.45am and do not leave before 9pm and twice a week I have to stay until 10-11 in the evening. Imagine, I am not happy with my current role and I am spending 60% of my time at work. It implies during that 60% of my time I am not happy too.

I mentioned in the beginning that somehow I am proud of it. You know why? It took me so long to heap enough courage to take this decision because I was afraid to explore the world of unknown instead I chose to live in misery in my comfort zone.

Dare to Change!

I was ecstatic yesterday. God is really good and his great providence never fails. Yesterday I met my old friend, Ruby and we had a dinner. It has been awhile since we last met.

Early this year she decided to leave her unfulfilling and stressful job. She took the risk without any job offer at hand and I really admired her when she took that decision. Though she does not have obligations because she is single, but still, considering that we are here in UAE where having a job means having an employment visa.

Anyway, I am glad because she already found a job and her employment visa is on the process already.

Then later in the evening too I received a call from Qatar. Another good friend of mine, Mylene, who also heaped enough courage to leave the job (without any job offer at hand) she was not happy at all .

So last week, she flew to Doha to search for a new job and yesterday she shared the good news. She found already a job and her visa is on the process too.

I am really happy for both of them. They succeed in taking a daring decision to change and to get rid of their stressful job.

Your Delay is not my Emergency

There is a part of my job that involves contracting.  The peak of this task is during the end of the year until mid January. The contracting process involves a lot preparation and once finalize it is sent to our clients.  I am quite used to this contacting season considering that I have been working for four years in our office but this year, it seems to be the worst one.

For whatever reasons, there is a delay from every aspect. Unfortunately, the consequence of this delay boils down to one person, our secretary. She will work until midnight or worst early morning to finish everything.

This reminds me of my ex-colleague. She was working as a secretary and she posted a bold text in here PC which was really visible even if you are at a distance. The words were “Your delay it not my emergency”. If you have bosses who tend to delay things and later dump these responsibilities to you with unreasonable deadline, then this adage suits him.

Things to Focus in 2012

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With my decision to leave my current job, I am optimistic to land a job that does not require me to work longer hours at the same time an uninterrupted weekends. You see, I enjoy tremendously my two days off but oftentimes I slot in few minutes of office work like checking and replying to important emails. Also, there are the inevitable phone calls from the clients and the company either requesting for some assistance or issues that need to be resolved.

Hopefully with my new job, I will be freed from this and I look forward to having more time honing my writing skills and do my side business which I aim to be my passive source of income soon. Let me know if you are interested. And most importantly, spending quality time with my hubby.

My brother has been urging me to pay attention and consider seriously my writing business. I used to do it for fun. It is more of a hobby and the earnings that come to it is more of a bonus only. This time, I want to follow my brother’s advice.

I am keen on learning the ins and outs of freelance writing and the potential business opportunities that come to it. I am willing to start the learning process all over again. This is one aspect that I want to focus and invest my time this year.

Secondly, I targeted to thrive in my side business. I just joined this company last month and so far I am still on the process of learning the business. I know that it takes a lot of hard work and a long stretch of perseverance to succeed in this field. I am working on it!

I will focus only on these two things this year..

February will be over soon…

I was just writing my journal today and realized that it is already 15th of February. It means that this month is already over. How fast the time flies?

Lately, I have been contemplating on going home for good. I am very tired of living a corporate life which sadly equates to stress. Sometimes I wonder why some people are so keen to stay in big cities and bear the hustle and bustle of the urban life.

I know that we have our own preferences and I like the greenery and laid back way of life in the province as long as I have an internet connection… LOL!

Anyway, let’s hope for the best this month. In the industry I am working right now, we are forecasting a tough year as competition intensifies and I know the situation will be even worst when the summer season comes.

In a way, I am glad that I decided to leave. What a good excuse, huh!

Bold Decision..

I have taken the boldest decision in my life so far (apart from getting married and becoming pregnant, LOL!). As a person, I always play safe and rarely challenge risks but as I mentioned in previous post,  I will heap all my courage this year and take bold decisions in life.

And I did.

I resigned from my job last week without another job offer at hand, a decision that according to some of my clients-turned-friends is not a very smart move considering the tough job market in the city.

Despite of the discouragement, I resigned.

Of course, I am leaving my job for a very valid reason.

Anyway, wish me luck in search for a new job! I am trudging the world of uncertainty but I have faith to the man up there. I will definitely find a job before my notice period ends!

Maternity Leave

My tummy at 6 months...

As mentioned in my previous post, I felt like my life was going through a 180 degrees spin after realizing that I was pregnant as there were so many changes happening physically, emotionally and financially. My priorities in life are suddenly changed.

Anyway, I decided to take an extended leave because I want to deliver here in Philippines. I am quite anxious considering it is my first baby. So, my Mum’s presence during this milestone will make a significant difference.

Gladly, my employer agreed for extended leave. I availed my remaining vacation days for 2011 and I took also advance vacations days. On top of that, I am covered for 45 days paid maternity leave as per the law in UAE.

It is indeed quite a long leave from work.

The challenge is at work because we have limited staff. Fortunately, it was all sorted out before I left but I decided to continue checking my office emails at home to lessen somehow the work burden I left to my colleagues.

Well, wish me luck as I open this new chapter in my life.

Renaissance

Missing my family (my sister Cash, "Meh", Mum, my big Bro and my nephew Jim Gabriel)

It has been awhile since my last post. Many things happened that I can hardly breathe and cope up.

There was the demise of my beautiful niece.

I shifted to a new house – traded the nice villa in a quiet and lovely neighborhood to a flat conveniently located in the heart of the city.

Our office has been restructured – new bosses and colleagues, new office system and policies. It was quite a big adjustment for me.

I am missing my big bro. Following the demise of niece, my brother is still back home with his family. I miss chatting with him. Somehow his presence cures my depressive moods.

‘Am missing Mum and my sis too.

There are more.. but

Life must go on… (**smile**) and so does my blog..

And I terribly miss writing, the only work that always matters to me..

Hopefully this post is the beginning of more writings and blog postings here in Frugal Expat – a renaissance.

Coping with Job Termination in Abu Dhabi

Your job can either make or break your life here in Abu Dhabi or UAE in general. Back home, losing your job means no more monthly salary and medical insurance, right? But here, the impact is more than.

On several occasions in my line of work, I happened to know in advance the plans to end, for various reasons, the employment of my few selected colleagues. And having this prior knowledge of what will happen to them in the next few days is always a burden of guilt for me.

I can’t look at them in their eyes. I wish I can tell them without risking my job. It always breaks my heart because I know that as expats, our job here in UAE is our lifeblood.

The first issue is the visa. The legality of your existence here in UAE is literally dependent to your company. To be blunt, it is at the mercy of your employer. The company or employer provides an employment visa to us, expat employees. If for whatever reasons, your employment is terminated, then the company will cancel your visa.

Once the visa is cancelled, you have one month to stay legally in the country. Again, this situation will depend on your employer.

I have a friend who was retrenched from her job because of the recession. Luckily, she had a compassionate employer who allowed her to stay under their sponsorship until she found a job. However, on some occasions, employers will not allow such arrangement. They will cancel your employment visa and escort you the airport on your departure.

The reason behind this is to ensure that expats with cancelled visas will really board the plane and depart the country. Otherwise, it is will be a problem for the company and yours as well.

Here are few tips in coping up with job terminations in Abu Dhabi.

Visa. Always ask your employer if they can allow you to stay in their sponsorship for few weeks until you find a job or more time before they will cancel your visa. Make sure you have clear information on this. The least thing you want to happen is to know that you are running out of time because they cancelled already your visa without your knowledge.

And remember, after your visa is cancelled, you have 30 days to stay legally in the country.

No Object Certificate (NOC). Companies which are government or semi-government do not require any NOC to process your employment visa. However, for medium size employers, they oftentimes require NOC. Hence, before you leave the HR office, ask if they can provide you with NOC should you land a job soon with non-government owned companies.

Friends’ Generosity. This is the toughest part unless you save enough. My friend, who was asked to leave because of recession, stayed with her friend’s house or accommodation to save money. You will not know how long it takes you to get a job, so save every penny.

Use your Network. Though I am not so fond of networking, it does help you in times like this. Job market nowadays here in Abu Dhabi is really tough. I remembered years back, the moment you started sending your CVs out, you would be bombarded with phone calls for interview.

You would definitely get a job sooner than you expect.

But these days, it is different. It takes time to wait for response from your applications. Maybe because they are also swarmed with applicants who are sometimes more qualified than you and are willing to accept modest or even lower employment package.

So to get ahead of this throng of applicants, use your network to push your CV up.

Well, these are few heads up I can share in case you are coping with the plight of losing your job. If you have more tips, please feel free to share.

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